Wednesday, January 06, 2010

the engagement. part 2.


it's been nearly two months, but they are still as giddy as they were here.



at the time, they were thinking of a november wedding. i didn't think they could make it. i was right. it's been moved to may.


though there's talk of the courthouse. just let me know before i buy a dress, ok guys?

i wish i had a recording of our background noise of the day ~ zac's laugh. anyone that knows him will tell you that his laugh is unique. and contagious. it did not stop the whole day, and had us laughing with him!







congrats you two!


the engagement. part 1.



it's not a story of love at first sight. no, zac has been around now for quite some time - as my brother's best friend. i still remember the first time i met him, years ago. i thought he was the smiliest guy i had ever seen. really. and he happened to be hobbling around with both legs in braces from a serious car accident at the time. i remember praying for his recovery. little did i know....

fast forward to last summer. my little sis had grown up, and zac had fallen hard. he followed her around like a little puppy dog, with all of us behind him holding our breath and crossing our fingers. lacey was the only one who didn't see it. "i just don't see him that way" she would say.
heh. heh.

my how things have changed. i watched her heart flip, jump, and turn inside out in just a few months. by the fall marriage was in the air.

i'll never forget her giddy voice when she called just to tell me she was pretty sure she would have a ring by the first of the year.

but then i got a call from zac.....

we knew it would be really hard to surprise lacey since she and zac were together all the time. and he knew that if he did anything out of the ordinary she would be on to him. though i thought it would be perfectly "them" to get engaged in a tree stand, we came up with a plan that she wouldn't expect, but love.

our family was planning a trip to TN, and zac thought cade's cove would be the perfect place. so them. and a place they could always go back to. lacey had already been talking to me about doing their engagement pictures. she had tons of ideas, and was really looking forward to it. she also asked if i would take photos of them at cades cove to give to parents as christmas gifts. we laughed about photoshoping a ring in the picture.

it was possibly the hardest secret i've ever kept. my insides where doing cartwheels for weeks.

the day finally came, and we headed out. i snapped this photo as zac whispered "is it your left knee or right?". most genuine. guy. ever (besides my b, of course).

because the whole caravan (my brother and his wife, as well as lacey, zac, and i) was into hunting, we kept having to stop to look at deer. i kept thinking don't you guys know what is happening today???? as i fumbled with my camera and watched as the sun raced to high noon (the worst time for pictures...).

but it was good times with these folk. i like them.

my brother - clark griswald, the hunter version. southern vacation it was. look guys, big deer!...movement, buck!


we stopped at the cabin that my grandfather painted....

but it didn't happen there. i kept looking at lacey thinking she totally knows. but she didn't. she was clueless. and ringless.


then finally, this little church stood like a beacon on a hill and we knew without saying a word this was it! i trailed behind as this happened.


and then this.....



but then i couldn't help myself and ran up the hill, shaking and laughing with them.






and then a "for real" engagement shoot began....


christmas day steps



so far he's just like his brother was. he's been taking steps for a couple of months, but why would he want to slow himself down by walking when he can crawl faster than i can run?

it's fine by me though. i'd love to keep those baby cankles around as long as possible.


Monday, December 28, 2009

christmas day


we decided to let the boys open their stockings at home on christmas eve before we left for the festivities at gg's house. you know, so they would actually be excited about animal crackers, "big boy" undies, and toothpaste (though they did feature their friends dora, thomas, bob, and larry).


eggnog. he liked it.


baby jesus. he liked him too.


and finally,
the big day.




the vanity family shot. vanity, because the one where we are looking at the camera gives too much away. too much being that i rolled out of bed earrrrrly and had yet to have a shower....


the newly engaged couple and their baby.


uncle jamie and aunt courtney.
they give really cool gifts like dual-screen dvd players for your car.
hope y'all like your shirts guys!


uncle jamie likes to make sure each toy reaches their maximum fun potential.


and finally, a walk to test drive my new ride. a fancy schmancy double jog stroller. that i don't have a picture of.
but i do have a picture of the little guy who decided to walk instead.


it was an incredibly fun day! we were so happy to be with our family this year. and i think they were pretty happy to have us back too.

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

an early christmas gift, for me

this morning i was surprised to find

two little boxes
just for me.


in them contained

two bed-head brothers
playing happily.


it really has been a gift that recently they've been playing so well together. it's definitely not the case all the time, but it happens enough to give me a breather during the day - a smile for the moment.

last night sam was playing with his little xylophone when i heard charlie say, "wow. good job sam"! my heart leaped. but just as i was walking away from stirring my marinara to say the same to charlie, he grabs it away from sam and exclaims "MINE"! i rolled my eyes. sighed. and then sam says, "mi!". and then i laughed. so this is what i have to look forward to in 2010....

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

christmas at grandmama's

happy birthday
jesus





christmas cookies

roll...


sprinkle...


snack break.


admire your creation...


snack break.


share with daddy and brother.


Wednesday, December 09, 2009

one year


it's really hard to believe that it was only a year ago that we were walking the streets of NYC, trying to catch a glimpse of the rockefellar christmas tree, when i got the first 'hunch' that we were going to get to meet you that very weekend. i remember driving through the snow to greenwhich CT ~ shaking from shock, excitement, and nerves ~ you weren't due until january! though i was peaceful that you were going to be fine. months of heartfelt prayers were being answered so graciously. how could i not trust that the lord was smiling with us, bringing you into this world in perfect time? a month early, and you were still 2 oz. bigger than your bigger brother!
remember that. maybe you could use it for leverage in the future.


it's been a tough year. horrible reflux, living in an apartment above a restaurant in the dead of winter in NY, no family near...... not to mention that you woke at night every 1-3 hours for the first 5 months, not much better for the next 3, every 3 to 4 hours by 8 months (on good nights), and finally only woke once in the night at 10 months. for 2 weeks.
finally, at one year, we are seeing glimpses of a sleeper. though we are still crossing our fingers and holding our breath each night.


but there is no question that i would do it all again. to say you are a joy to our family is an understatement. sleeping may not be your strong suit, but smiling is.

you love to talk. you've made me laugh several times as i've tried to teach you sign language for a word and you look at me like i'm crazy and proceed to say the word instead. "all done" for instance. i was saying it over and over, throwing my hands in the air and acting a fool when you looked at me with your classic sam smirk and said "ah-da".

you think it is hilarious to stand on your own, but you've yet to take a step.


you're a mama's boy.
just between us, let's always keep it that way. k?



sam, i hope not a day goes by that you don't know how much you are loved ~ by me, by your dad and brother, but mostly by the One who brought you into our world!


happy birthday, my sweet baby sam. i hope you will forgive your sappy, sentimental mom over the years. she just can't help herself.


Tuesday, December 08, 2009

Friday, November 27, 2009

thank. full.



for enjoying a traditional thanksgiving meal rather than italian take-out ......for my baby sis's recent engagement........for having a family that i not only love, but really like.....

for friends that let me just be me ~ and love me whether i'm the better me, or the sleep-deprivedgrumpywoeismewanttobabysitwhileinap? me.....

for no longer being homeless due to home repairs......for new floors and a new roof.......for simply having a roof over my head ...

for two little boys that make my heart swell and my belly laugh........ for a husband that loves me even when i'm not laughing.....

for incomprehensible grace that has been lavished on me this year....

so. very. thankful.


Tuesday, November 10, 2009

about that hole...

i don't read long, narrative blogs, so i really don't expect anyone to want to read this. but before i lose you, let me just ask you ~ does your smoke detector work? are you sure?

last week, just after returning from a family reunion in GA for the day, i smelled something burning. after convincing bryan that it really wasn't plastic melting in the dishwasher i ran to the front window to confirm what i thought i saw - flames. big ones. pouring out from underneath our home.

almost robotically i told bryan that i was getting the boys, and for him to call 911 and get out too. just then we look down to see smoke coming from the heat vent. i've never seen bryan move so fast! i pulled the boys from their beds and ran to our neighbors house. i'm sure seeing me, barely hanging on to my pj-clad boys at 10 pm was the last thing they expected. or hearing the words "our house is on fire!". tyler was out in no time with his extinguisher, and he and bryan tackled the fire until the firemen arrived. stacey so graciously played with my boys while i just sat, wide-eyed and faint. (thank you, thank you!).

the fire was finally put out after the firemen busted a 2 ft hole in the brick of the exterior of the house, as well as the interior wall and (sniff) hardwood floor. it seems the motor of the ventilation fan in our crawlspace malfunctioned. it is pretty funny to think that the whole week we had been discussing how to control moisture under our house. i had the fleeting thought somewhere in the midst of it all "well, it's on fire now!". it became even "funnier" when i saw the firemen blasting their hose under it. heh..... heh.

but i am nothing but grateful. thank you lord for not letting this happen while we were sleeping! did i mention that our smoke detector wasn't working?

it is now. all three of them!


Monday, November 02, 2009

trick and treats

i guess you could say this passed week was filled with both trick and treat?

this lil' fireman may be inspecting a lil' hole......
but it's a $16,000+ hole!


thank you usaa insurance. we love you, and wish everyone could use you.

the story on the hole to come. until then, the treat of the week~






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